It's Hard Truth and Ridiculous Grace

These three bring me so much joy yet the reality is parenting them is the most challenging thing I have done or will ever do. They each came with their beautifully unique personalities and learning to bridge hearts with each of them is something I aim to do on a daily basis but am not always successful at doing. I don’t share a lot about parenting because the stories I have are not just mine to share, they are their stories too. In 15 years or so I’ll put together a book about these years to encourage others😊

Until then I will walk beside you as I learn and grow as a Mom. I will also share nuggets of wisdom I learn along the way that encourage me, in hopes they encourage you too. 

This morning I heard a song and it’s lyrics really captured my heart.

“It's so unusual it's frightening
You see right through the mess inside me
And you call me out to pull me in
You tell me I can start again
And I don't need to keep on hiding
I'm fully known and loved by You
You won't let go no matter what I do
And it's not one or the other
It's hard truth and ridiculous grace
To be known fully known and loved by You” - @taurenwells 

Though the song is about God’s love for me, it reminds me of who I need to be as a Mom; a reflection of God’s love to my children. I want my children to know that they are fully known, loved and there is nothing they can say or do that changes my love for them. And offer them ridiculous grace as they learn and grow into the person they were made to be.

If you too are a parent, I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

May we read these words and absorb them. May we see the truth in how God loves us, and may we aim to be a reflection of His love to our children today. And when we have hard moments and wish there was a do over available, may we remember there is ridiculous grace waiting for us too.

With love and hope,
Shawn

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What Have I Not Grieved?

In my morning walk with Georgia I listened to a podcast that left me asking myself the questions:

What have I not grieved?

Have I moved forward in life and put an experience in a box within my heart that will remain unopened? - or - Have I cleaned out the box leaving my heart open to receive more of what life has to offer?

I share this with you today too in case you have a closed box from a life experience you’ve stuffed away in your heart. I invite you to join me today to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

May we be courageous enough to open the box and grieve what is in there. - the hurt, the pain, the loss, the anger, the sadness, etc. 

Why would we choose to do that?

Because if we never grieve the losses we experience in life, we are holding ourselves back from allowing God in fully into our hearts, minds and lives. And therefore, we are holding ourselves back from experiencing life as fully as we were made to. So let’s choose today to clear out our cluttered heart and make room for love to dwell there instead.

It may not be easy, but it will be worth it💕🙏💕

With love and hope,
Shawn

P.S. To listen to the inspirational message I heard his morning, check out North Point Community Church Clay Scroggins message, visit: http://northpoint.org/messages/its-fine/good-grief/.

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Know Where You Are

We had an aMAZing day as a family this weekend😉💝 Yet within minutes of entering the corn maze we were lost. We couldn’t figure out where we were in the maze map🙃 After trial and error we...okay, actually it was Stephen...figured out where we were.

He said, “once you know where you are, it’s easier to get where you want to go.”

Isn’t that true about life?

If we don’t know where we are, how do we know how to move forward to where we hope to be?

If you are feeling a little lost today in any area of your life, I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

May we stop moving around and around and choose to be still. Let’s establish where we are today, in our personal and/or professional lives. Once we know where we are, coupled with where we hope to be, we can better determine what our next step forward is.  

With love and hope,
Shawn

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Say and Do What is Ours To Say and Do

As you are well aware, there are a lot of struggling hearts in the world, near and far, mine and yours. 

Everyday I have been waking up reminding myself that I have a choice of who holds my heart. I can give it to the hurt, the pain, the frustration, the anger...OR...I can give it to God. 

I choose to give it to God. 

Why?

Because it’s the only way I have found I can live more fully in this world full of dis-ease.

So what do I do?

Daily I ask God, “what is mine to say or do today that will help me bridge hearts with someone else and let them know they are seen and heard, known and loved?”

Yes, I read the news and yes I am disheartened often by it. Yet I can’t live in that space. It doesn’t serve me and doesn’t help me serve others. Just as I can’t live my days thinking of a possible reoccurrence of cancer, I can’t live my days weighted by the bad news out there. If I live there, I will get stuck and not move forward in my day, or life. Instead, I choose to live by figuring out what I can say, what I can do, today, from where I am to walk beside others in life and help them rise up into the best version of themselves. 

I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

What we say and do will look and sound different for all of us . May we start our day and week giving our hearts to God. May we each ask what is ours to say and do today so we can scatter seeds of love into the hearts of others, and be a part of the change needed in our homes, communities and society.

Let’s not get stuck in the dis-ease that is out there. Instead let’s take one step forward by living out love today and bridging hearts with others.

With love and hope,
Shawn

P.S. Thank you @valleysimsbury for having me scatter seeds of love to your community last night

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Be Present In the Season We Are In

The leaves are falling🍂 There is such beauty in this season.

No matter what season of life we are in, time continues to move forward. Inevitably the landscape in our lives will change. I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

May we be present in the season we are in. May we look at how this season is helping us grow deeper in to the person we were made to be. And may we see the beauty this season has to offer before it passes by.

With love and hope,
Shawn

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Purposefully Productive

In case you’ve ever wondered what the creative process looks like for an author/speaker, here you go🙃

So many thought, so many ideas...so messy! Lol

I am excited to be back out speaking for another MOPS group this morning. The hope is to take this messy, creative process and turn it into an inspirational message that will plant seeds of hope and encouragement into these Moms hearts.

I share this with you this morning in case you too have numerous thoughts/ideas/things to do floating in your mind right now.

I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

Let’s quiet the mind. Invite God in to the process. Ask questions like, what is mine to say? What is mine to do?

Let’s be still and listen.

May our ears be inclined to wisdom this morning to help us be purposefully productive in our words and actions so we may encourage and lift others up today💕🙏💕

With love and hope,
Shawn

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Watch What Matters

Yesterday we went to watch David Wright’s last game at Citifield⚾️ Being married to, and raising, life long Mets fans, it was a bittersweet day to watch David Wright, who demonstrates integrity, respect, hard work, perseverance, determination and loyalty, leave the game due to an injury.

As much as the day was about him, I found myself watching my family yesterday.

I did the same thing watching a movie on the couch on Friday night.

There is something to watching others experience life. I receive such joy watching my loved ones absorb life’s experiences. Yet too have felt their pain and sorrow. It really doesn’t matter where we are or what we do, whether I am beside them on the couch or at the ball field, it is a gift to connect with them in this way.

I share this with you today because no matter what you are doing today, I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

May we choose to step back wherever we are today and take it all in. May we watch those we with and experience life through their eyes. Let’s watch their expressions and connect with their emotions. It is powerful and helps us get out of ourselves and bridge hearts deeper with those we are with.

And as David Wright left the field last night, I watched my husband wrap his arm around our son, as together they said goodbye to a man who brought so much joy to their lives, and the game, for so many years.

With gratitude and hope,
Shawn

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Keep Doing What You've Been Doing

I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

Whatever it ours to say and do today, let’s choose to do it. Let’s not be the ones at the end of our lives who look back wishing we had said or done this or that. Let’s be the ones who get to the end who have a heart full of gratitude for the seeds of love we were able to spread while we had the chance to. May we each use our unique gifts tohelp be the change we hope to see in the world.

With love and hope,
Shawn

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🎵Ain't It Funny How Life Changes🎵

🎵”Ain't it funny how life changes
You wake up, ain't nothing the same and life changes You can't stop it, just hop on the train and You never know what's gonna happen You make your plans and you hear God laughing Life changes, and I wouldn't change it for the world,”🎵 - Thomas Rhett

Yep, the good, the, bad, the ugly...the anxiety, depression, cancer I have had to experience in life...has brought me to this moment today where I am able to love others more deeply, I live more fully (like taking our kids to a concert where we get home at midnight🙃), and have deeper roots of faith.

I wouldn’t change it for the world💕🙏💕

I share this with you in case your life has taken an unexpected 180, for the good, the bad or the ugly. I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

May you keep moving forward, step by step. May you look at the heart of the change, trusting you are meant to experience this so you may love deeper, live more fully and have deeper roots of faith.

With love and hope,
Shawn

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Look Up and Around

On my morning walk I saw this unexpected beautiful animal.

Zoom in to see ‘who’?😉🦉

I share with you because many of us walk the same path every day in life, going through the motions of our routines.

I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

May we remember to look up and around us on our paths, because although the path may look the same, there are beautiful gifts waiting for us along the way.

With love and hope,
Shawn

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