Do What We Can From Where We Are

Yesterday was supposed to be opening day for baseball. For me, it wasn’t a big deal at all that we missed it but when you have a baseball loving family, you could see they missed the joy the game brings them. So Stephen and the boys created their own opening day in our front yard⚾️

And this friends is the dance I have experienced since my walk with cancer, and that many of us are in right now.

There are people struggling right now, literally for their lives, there are people who are putting their lives on the line to save others. This is the below the surface reality that happens daily that has now risen to the surface in society. The world now sees the struggle is real. And it is in this place where we gain perspective and see clearly who and what matters most in life. 

Yet my kids aren’t fully there. Yes, we have honest conversations with them to inform them, age appropriately, the reality of what is happening, just as we did with cancer. And yes, we are doing what we can from where we are to help. We are staying home, sending money, making masks, sending meals, praying, etc. to be a part of the healing. I want them to know there is real stuff happening and we can do what we can as a family to help. Yet I also am trying to meet them as the 14, 12 and 7 year olds they are.

Yes, I want this experience to open their eyes and give them better perspective in life, yet I need to trust that that will come in God’s time.

For now, I need to come beside them, loving them where they are, and understand things like missing baseball matters to them. 

When I watched the world through their eyes as they played yesterday, they showed me there is still laughter and joy to be had in this day, even in the midst of this struggle.

I share this with you today because I know I am not alone with that tug of war in our hearts between keeping perspective on what’s really happening and living life beside our families while we are at home.

I invite you to join me to...

pause. breathe. pray.

May God open our eyes to the truth of what is really happening yet not lose sight that our kids, and others, may not have that perspective we have, and to meet them where they are.

May we do what we can from where we are, even if it means watching your kids play baseball in the yard, and dedicating each throw and hit as a prayer for the sick, for the doctors, the nurses, the volunteers, the scientists, the mailmen, the helpers, etc. 

Stay well and God bless💕🙏💕

With love and hope,
Shawn

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”

- Ephesians 4:2

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Focus on the Light

Last night I lit this candle and sat in the darkness watching the light flicker.  

The more I focused on the light, the brighter the room became.  

I share this with you today because there is a lot of darkness in our world right now. If we keep our eyes fixed on it, it may paralyze is from living this day we have been given. Instead, may we fix our eyes on God and the light of love shining into the darkness.

May we look, and give thanks, for those who are shining their light of love into the darkness; the helpers, the doctors, nurses, volunteers, scientists, farmers, grocers, teachers, neighbors, etc.

And may we shine a light of love from where we are into the darkness; by making a phone call, sending a text or card, FaceTiming someone, drawing a picture, sewing masks, sending food and/or supplies someone’s way, etc.

I invite you to join me to...

pause. breathe. pray.

Yes, this is a dark time, yet when we focus on the light of light, may we see this fire we are experiencing, is purifying us as individuals, as communities, as a nation, as humanity, to be the light of love we are called to be. 

Let’s choose to shine God’s light of love into the darkness today by loving one another today, however we can, from where we are, to make the world a little brighter today💕🙏💕

With love and hope,
Shawn

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” - John 1:5

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Today I am Grateful to God for...

Today's encouraging words to put into practice:

There is always someone, or something, to be grateful to God for.

Gratitude is a practice that can shift our eyes from the darkness to the light. Even in life’s greatest storms, there is always someone, or something, to be thankful for. I invite you to join me to...

Pause. Breathe. Pray.

May we write down at least 5 things we have to be grateful for today to help us fix our eyes on what is good in this day.

With love and hope,
Shawn

“Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” - 1 Thessalonians 5:18

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Honoring Those Who Selflessly Serve

Three years ago this week my dear friend sent me this picture of her family’s hands together in solidarity with me as I had my maxillectomy surgery.

Today these same hands don’t get to be together as the father of this family is going to work; he is a doctor.

To protect his family, he has made the wise, but tough choice, to stay at a friend’s vacant apartment after work until this passes to be certain if he by chance got it, he wouldn’t pass it along to his family.

This is the selfless service and sacrifice many are making for their families and our communities to help #flattenthecurve.

May we take a moment to...

pause. breathe. pray.

And join our hands and hearts together in solidarity to honor the selfless service and sacrifice others. May we do our part to help keep them well so they can do what they were made to do and help others heal. #stayhome #staywell

With love and hope,
Shawn

“May God bless you and protect you, may God smile on you and be gracious to you,

May the Lord look on you with flavor and give you His peace.” - Numbers 6:24-26

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Learn From Those Who Go Before Us

A couple of summer’s ago, I took our older two tubing. Kate was ahead of Gavin and I. At one point I heard her scream, “OW!” Then she called back to Gavin and I saying, “I just hit a big rock. Move over so you don’t hit it too.”

This moment has always stuck with me because often in life, there is someone who has walked the path before us. They have experienced things we can learn from, and have wisdom to share with us so we don’t have to experience the same things.

I share this with you today because we have people who have gone before us with the Coronavirus who we can learn from, whether it is what they did, or what they didn’t do.

I invite you to join me to...

pause. breathe. pray.

May we take what others have experienced and see what we can learn from them to make the wisest choice for our families, our communities, and beyond💕🙏💕

With love and hope,
Shawn

“Don’t turn your back on wisdom, for she will protect you. Love her, and she will guard you.” - Proverbs 4:6

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Fix Our Eyes on God

When I woke up this morning all was well and then the thought of what our new reality is crept in and it made me a bit unsettled. Some of you may know what I mean, and some of you aren’t there right now.

I remember this feeling from a few years ago. After a good night sleep, waking up feeling peaceful and then remembering the reality of the journey that stood before us.

What I learned then, and am doing my best to put into practice now, is that in this new reality we have a choice; to let fear win, or faith.

Let’s choose faith.

How?

Let’s take time off our screens to...

Pause.

Breathe.

Pray.

And fix our eyes and ears on God. May we allow His truth to give us wisdom, comfort and peace during this uncertain time.

If you don’t know where to begin, I have created printables of 10 encouraging verses for you. These are some of my go tos to meditate on to help me have faith win. Visit the link in below and feel free to print these out and post them around your home for you and your kids to see. Share them on social media to help others who are online have encouraging words in their newsfeeds.

Let’s walk beside one another through this, fixing our eyes on God’s wisdom and truth so our faith grows to be greater than our fear.

With love and hope,
Shawn

https://www.shawnelizabethgeorge.com/10-encouraging-bible-verses

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Make the Wise Choice

“Sometimes we have to do the things we don’t want to do, to get the results we need to have.” - Andy Stanley

I heard this quote years ago and I find I am leaning into today.

I learned yesterday that the annual dodgeball fundraiser I run in town (with the help of our Park and Rec department) is cancelled due to the uncertainty of the Coronavirus.

Although I want to bring community together, and have fun while raising money for rare cancer research, the reality is, this is the wisest choice.

Something I have thought about today is how I didn’t understand what my mom went through with cancer until I got it myself. This truth is applicable in so many situations in life. We don’t understand things until we experience them.

Yet what if we could choose to take preventative measures that can help us from not having to experience something, like the Coronavirus?

Yes, we may never experience the virus and think we could have had these events, but what if not having these events was cause for us not to experience this virus?

That is how I am choosing to view the cancellation of this event; that it may be a way to prevent the spread of the virus and help it end sooner.

I invite you to join me to...

pause.

breathe.

pray.

May we be willing to sacrifice something we want to do, to do what is needed to help one another not have to experience what this virus is like and help it end sooner, rather than later.

With love and hope,
Shawn

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🎈🎁🎉Kate's 14!🎉🎁🎈

🎈🎁🎉Today we are celebrating our adventurous, loving and radiant Kate turn 14!🎉🎁🎈

May the greatest gift she ever receives is to know how greatly she is loved by God, her family and her true friends.

In all these years of parenting, God has clearly showed me that although I am her Mom, and Stephen her Dad, we are not Kate’s (or our boys) only teachers in life. From our family and friends, to her teachers and coaches, there are others helping her grow into the future adult she is becoming.

I share this with you today to invite you to join me to...

pause. breathe. pray.

I wanted to ask what wisdom you have to share with Kate as she steps into this new year, which will include going to High School?!

I appreciate the words of wisdom you have to offer our girl to help her grow into the person she was made to be.

With love and gratitude,
Shawn

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Be a Bridge

On Sunday my daughter wasn’t feeling well so we left church. After we left she said something to me that struck me. She said, “Mom, I am sorry I took you away from church.”

The truth was, leaving church didn’t cross my mind. What her question did was make me pause, and see that from her perspective she may have thought I valued being at church as more important than helping her.

I responded letting her know that her being well was more important than being at church. Church is a place where we grow in faith but the truth of our faith is seen in our words and actions; by whether we choose to live out love towards others, no matter where we are. And if I chose to stay at church over choosing to help my daughter when she felt sick, the message our faith is founded on would have been lost, on me, and on her.

I share this with you because this short interaction with my daughter really captured my heart. It made me see that I will be a wall, or a bridge to faith for others based on my choices.

I won’t pretend that I have gotten, or will get, this right every time. Yet I clearly see from this brief conversation with my daughter that my words and actions could be a wall or bridge for her to faith.

I pray to be a bridge.

I share this with you because it is an important reminder to all of us that our words and actions may be the bridge someone needs to God, or we could be creating a wall between others and God. I invite you to join me to...

pause. breathe. pray.

May we be a bridge for others to God, reflecting the truth of God’s love and character, through our words and actions.

With love and hope,
Shawn

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Life Is Beautiful

The other night I found myself on the sidelines of one of my kid’s practices, sipping my tea and talking with some friends. It hit me that these moments are what make life beautiful. Living fully isn’t about having the grandest experiences, but it is about fully showing up for the people and moments in the day.

And for me, that day it was showing up to drive the kids to and from places, doing the loads of laundry that were needed to be done, etc.

I think there is an expectation many of us hold, myself included, that our life needs to be full of things and experiences.

But what if in different seasons in our lives these little moments in our day are really the bigness life has to offer us?

I admit, these moments were becoming more of a checklist item than a joyful moment I was experiencing. Yet with this renewed lens I am seeing life through after my scans, I realized the fear of the cancer coming back had to do with not being able to experience these little moments with my loved ones.

I share this with you, in case these day to day moments have become tasks for you too. I invite you to join me to...

pause. breathe. pray.

May we recognize these little moments beside our loved ones are really the big things that make our lives beautiful.

With gratitude and love,
Shawn

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